It's Your Faith...Not Feelings
As believer, "we live by faith, not by sight (2 Corinthians 5:7)"--God never wants us to live by our feelings. Our inner self may want to live by feelings, and Satan may want us to, but God wants us to face the facts, not feelings. He wants us to face the facts of Christ and His finished and perfect work for us. And once we face these precious facts, and believe them simply because God says they are facts, He will take care of our feelings. God...gives us feelings...and these feelings that can only come from Him will be given at such a time and to such a degree as His love sees best for each individual circumstance.